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4 lies every professional pet sitter has heard

Beth Stultz-Hairston, PSI

    

As a professional pet sitter, you carefully screen potential clients and conduct a thorough initial consultation to ensure you have all of the information you need and that the pet-sitting assignment is a good fit for you and the client.

While mutual trust is vital in the pet sitter-pet parent relationship, at some point you’ll encounter pet owners who lie, or at least omit the truth.

So, what are some things pet sitters have discovered pet owners being less than honest about?

1. Their pet’s behavior.  While they likely have no bad intentions, some pet owners are not forthcoming about their pet’s behavior. Without an accurate understanding of a pet’s behavior, you are unable to provide them with the best care and you may also be putting yourself at risk. Often, you can ensure you receive more accurate information by asking more specific questions. For example, don’t simply ask “Is your dog aggressive?” Most pet owners don’t want to think of their pets as aggressive even if they have shown aggressive tendencies in the past.

Instead, ask questions about specific behaviors:

  • Has your dog ever bitten or scratched a person?
  • Has your dog ever bitten or gotten into fights with other pets, either in the home or outside the home?
  • Does your dog bark or growl at strangers entering the home?

Understanding a pet’s behavior extends beyond asking about aggressive tendencies. You’ll also want to know how they react to the owner’s absence and how they react in other situations. Again, refrain from general questions and instead focus on specifics (e.g. Does your cat have any specific hiding places? Does your dog pull on the leash when you are walking her?).

2.  Others that have access to the home. Job sharing and pet sitting when others have access to the home are often hot topics in the pet-sitting community. While some have no issue with job sharing or pet sitting in a home where house cleaners, adult children or even neighbors will be coming and going, many do not want to assume the liability that results from these situations—and often turn down these assignments. However, we often hear from members who don’t discover others have access to the home until they are already in the middle of the pet-sitting assignment.  

How you respond to job sharing and/or others having access to the home (whether you know in advance or find out when the assignment is already in progress) will be a business decision you should make in advance—and this is a policy you should make your clients aware of upfront.  Many pet sitters find it common for clients to have house cleaners or other service professionals in the home during a client’s absence. Because they will not be sharing pet-sitting services, they simply request to know the days and times these service professionals will be in the home to avoid surprises.  While most pet sitters we hear from do not want to share pet-sitting duties with a friend, family member or another sitter, some do take these assignments but ask clients to sign a waiver indicating the pet sitter will not be liable for anything that may occur since others have access to the homes and pets (if you want to go this route, be sure to have your waiver reviewed by a legal professional).

If your policy is that you will not share any pet-sitting assignments, be upfront with your clients, but make sure the reason you provide is accurate. We have heard from pet sitters who tell clients that they cannot job share because having someone else in the home will void their pet-sitter insurance. This is likely not the case (check with your insurance provider to be sure), and you don’t want to give a deceptive reason to the client. Simply say that your business has a no job-sharing policy because while a pet is in your care you want to ensure that they receive superior pet care, and you don’t feel that you can do this when others have access to the home and pet.

3.  Their departure and return dates.  Have you ever arrived to an assignment and had the distinct feeling that the clients didn’t actually leave the night before (or that morning) as they indicated they would when they booked your services? Instead, the cat’s overflowing litterbox and empty food and water bowl make you feel as if the client tried to skirt around your every-day-cat-visit policy by lying about when they’d actually be leaving town? It’s unfortunate—but it happens! As a professional pet sitter, your most effective way to combat this is to be proactive: Be clear in your policy regarding every day visits and educate clients on why it’s so important for even pets they consider “low maintenance” to be visited at least once every 24 hours. (You may want to share information from this blog post on why every day cat visits are a must.)

If you are worried about clients who may not be returning when they say they will, your business policies can go a long way in preventing this. Most pet sitters have a policy that clients must contact them (by call or text) when they return home. Accidents and delays happen, so this is a great policy to ensure that pets do not go without care because the client is unexpectedly unable to return home. This is also a great way to combat a client who may be less than honest on when they plan to return home.

Many pet sitters leave a note or card on the last visit asking for the client to let them know when they arrive home. If they don’t hear from the client, their policy is to come by (and charge) for another pet-sitting visit. Having this policy in place—and making sure clients are aware of it—demonstrates to clients how serious you are about ensuring their pets are properly cared for, and also gives them added incentive to be truthful about their return date and time.

4. The reason for their last-minute trips. Have you ever had a client who had a grandmother pass away 3-4 times in the same year? Or a client that calls on the Friday of Labor Day weekend with a “family emergency?” Or, maybe the client who calls in a panic about having to work late, but then you see Facebook photos of them at a concert? Whether it’s because they simply have a disregard for your time, have an issue with lying in general, had another pet sitter that fell through, or are too embarrassed to admit they dropped the ball on securing pet care, some clients will lie about the reason they are requesting last-minute service. 

How you handle these situations will, of course, be your decision—but it’s also important to have policies in place to refer to when you get these types of client requests. Do you charge a last-minute booking fee or require upfront payment for last-minute requests? If so, have these polices in writing and stick to them when these (less than honest) last-minute requests occur. Ultimately, you’ll also have to decide if this type of client is one you want to keep.

Are there any other lies you’ve been told by current or potential clients? How did you respond? Let us know in the comments below.

Comments

Renee

January 19, 2019  |  11:k PM
I do a lot of overnights & in home pet sitting. Most in million dollar homes. You always have housekeepers, Gardner’s, & pool guy coming. Watching grandma & the teenagers was one I use to do a lot. That one they never told me the dog would get diarrhea because he had separation anxiety. It was so bad one time I couldn’t pick him up because it was all over him. He refused to walk & we were a long way from home. Finally some gardeners came I asked for a garage bag put it over his hind end scooped him up & walked home. I agree with one of the other ladies we could definitely write a book. I’ve had the same thought numerous times. People make comments like it’s a vacation & I can tell you it is far from that. A lot of responsibility, but rewarding.

Piper

December 12, 2018  |  8:k PM
It has been a long time since I've done an actual face palm, but I just did one while reading each of these comments. And Kathy's comment about chasing after the dog for three weeks? Oh my word. What do you even say about that? It has been several years since I last did any live-in petsitting, but I did it regularly for 5+ years with the worst incident being dealing with the police when a house alarm couldn't be deactivated. I guess I got lucky!

Laurie

October 27, 2018  |  3:k PM
I arrived at a million dollar home to do overnights for 2 weeks. Upon arriving found out there would be construction going on upstairs beginning at 7AM till 3pm. One day when I arrived at the house and opened the garage there was a car parked in it. Later learned they told them they could use the garage while they were gone. (This means they had access to the house.) Then a lady showed up with her dog to use the pool and her dog did not get along with their dog. Not to mention the eBay addiction the husband had with huge pkgs arriving every day. I was informed of none of this. I ended up charging extra for house sitting which they did not like and never saw them again. Good Riddance!

Lynn Hall

October 25, 2018  |  1:k PM
Oh the number of times I have had unwanted people insert themselves into my pet-sitting jobs. I finally added a clause in my contract stating tht it was me and only me and if the client could not comply then no hard feelings, but I was not taking the job. Most get it but every once in a while I find someone who tries to change my mind. No thanks, I have been burned several times and bottom line, I am the one with the liability insurance!

Mandy Roberts

October 22, 2018  |  3:k PM
I am writing my memoirs. Oh the stories we can tell. All of the above. I do a lot of overnights and
Live in assignment. It becomes really interesting
When other people want to also take up residence in the house. Teenagers who have
Scheduled a party that Mom and Dad don’t know about. Adult children with the grandchildren
Moving in, not to care for the pets but to use the pool. Nephews camping in the back yard. Boyfriends with keys letting themselves in to
Take advantage of the liquor cabniet, then passing out naked on the sofa. I think the book will sell. What do you think?

Sandy

October 22, 2018  |  11:k AM
When a client uses every verb in the dictionary excluding the word "Bite" to describe dog's reactive temperament, it's best to decline. Example- He may "Snap", "Nip" or be mouthy but he's a sweetheart.

Kathy Brokos

October 22, 2018  |  9:k AM
One of the best was - 'You can let him out with his invisible fence collar and just stay in and have coffee, He's good about the fence' Then a text before they leave 'Go out with him and stay close to him whenever you let him out.' Then I had to text them that he ran through the fence after a deer and had to chase him into woods. Client sent back 'Oh, yeah, he did that before we left. Ran after a fox, a rabbit. Sorry about that. Guess we should have told you. We'll have to work something out when we get home.' They're away for 3 weeks, so 3 weeks of chasing him.

Doreen Bolognini

October 22, 2018  |  9:k AM
We found this article spot on as it relates to some of our clients, past and present. We are extremely clear in our meet and greet, asking very pointed questions, and consistently advise potential clients to please be honest with us and inform us of key issues such as aggressive behavior with people, other animals, food/toy aggression, housebreaking issues, leash pulling, access to the home by others, just to name a few. We just completed a pet sitting assignment for a client who was away on vacation for 6 days. We conducted 4 visits per day and upon arriving at each visit, we found that one of the dogs defecated and urinated on the couch and love seat at every visit. During our initial meeting, we were informed by the client that the reason for the sheets on the furniture was to avoid pet hair and/or dirt from paws. The client just happened to leave a pack of wee-wee pads for us in case of any accidents. We updated the client after each visit apprising them of the feces and urine and we never received a response, particularly when we ran out of the pads and had to purchase another pack out of our own funds. Needless to say, we will not be servicing this client in the future. If she had only been honest with us, we would have been better prepared to deal with the 4 times a day mess.